“I know the Bible says we're not supposed to be thinking about money all the time, but I've been fairly successful in my business and I admit it's all I think about. But why is that so wrong? Doesn't God expect me to take care of my family?”
“My cousin just had successful cancer surgery, but when I talked with her about it she gave all the credit to her doctors. God’s help and the prayers of others didn’t even seem to enter into her thinking. Shouldn’t she be grateful to God, as well as her doctors?”
“I don’t know why my wife and I ever got married because we’re so different. All we do is pull and tug at each other, trying to get the other person to change. But I know now that it’s not going to happen. Is there any hope for our marriage?”
“I guess you'd say my sister-in-law is kind of “high maintenance.” She's always calling me because she's gotten her feelings hurt by what someone said or did (or didn't do) to her. How can I help her? I get tired of just being a convenient shoulder for her to cry on.”
“Do you think some people are just destined to be bad, and no matter what happens they'll always do what's wrong? I'm a policeman, and I've often wondered about this because it seems like I keep seeing the same people over and over.”
“I always vowed I wouldn't be like my parents, who were very angry and abusive toward my brother and me. But now I sometimes find myself losing control with my own children. I hate myself afterward, but why do I act this way?”
“Have you ever heard anyone say that “God hates the sin but loves the sinner”? Is it in the Bible? My cousin quotes it whenever we get to talking about his immoral lifestyle. He claims it means he doesn't need to quit his sinful ways, because God still loves him and will take him to heaven anyway. Is he right?”
“I feel sorry for our neighbor, because she's getting up in years and doesn't seem to have any relatives or friends who pay her much attention. I've tried to be friendly, but to be honest she doesn't seem interested and I've about given up. Any suggestions?”
“A good friend told me the other day that she not only doesn’t believe in heaven, but she also thinks people who do are just trying to escape from the world’s problems. She knows I’m a Christian, but what can I say to her?”
“I’m angry at God because He took my husband from me. He was supposed to be a good Christian, but he ran away with his secretary and said he didn’t want anything more to do with me. If God really loved me, He wouldn’t have let this happen.”
“I’ve been in constant pain the last two years because of some back surgery that didn’t work. Now I’m afraid I’ve gotten hooked on painkillers. I get prescriptions from several doctors who don’t know I’m getting them from the others. I know that’s wrong, but I can’t stand the pain. Why doesn’t God take it away?”
“I’m scared of getting older, because I divorced my wife many years ago and I’m not on good terms with my children, and all I can see in front of me is loneliness and hopelessness. I wish I could go back and change the decisions I made, but it’s too late. Maybe someone can learn from my mistakes.”