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I've decided it doesn't pay to be nice to needy people and give them money, because they're just taking advantage of you (as I've learned through bitter experience). I know this isn't a very Christian attitude, but we have to take care of our own families first, don't we?

“I've decided it doesn't pay to be nice to needy people and give them money, because they're just taking advantage of you (as I've learned through bitter experience). I know this isn't a very Christian attitude, but we have to take care of our own families first, don't we?”

For several years my father was disabled and my mother faithfully cared for him, although it was very hard. Now I'm facing a similar situation with my husband, and I thank God every day for her example. Does God sometimes prepare us for things like this, even when we aren't aware of it?

“For several years my father was disabled and my mother faithfully cared for him, although it was very hard. Now I'm facing a similar situation with my husband, and I thank God every day for her example. Does God sometimes prepare us for things like this, even when we aren't aware of it?”

We're expecting our first baby in a few months, and to be honest I'm scared to death about being a mother. My own mother wasn't a very good role model (drugs, running around, finally abandoning us), and I never learned how to be a good mother. Does the Bible say anything about this?

“We're expecting our first baby in a few months, and to be honest I'm scared to death about being a mother. My own mother wasn't a very good role model (drugs, running around, finally abandoning us), and I never learned how to be a good mother. Does the Bible say anything about this?”

My oldest sister has been through three bad marriages so far, and maybe that's the reason I've never gotten married. I'd love to be married (I'm almost 24), but I'm so afraid I'll end up like her that I just can't seem to make a commitment to anyone. Is something wrong with me?

“My oldest sister has been through three bad marriages so far, and maybe that’s the reason I’ve never gotten married. I’d love to be married (I’m almost 24), but I’m so afraid I’ll end up like her that I just can’t seem to make a commitment to anyone. Is something wrong with me?”

Our whole family is kind of in shock, because one of our brothers never got along with his wife, yet after he died last year she spent an enormous amount of money on his funeral and on an elaborate gravestone. Why would she do this? They weren't wealthy or anything.

“Our whole family is kind of in shock, because one of our brothers never got along with his wife, yet after he died last year she spent an enormous amount of money on his funeral and on an elaborate gravestone. Why would she do this? They weren't wealthy or anything.”